"Add a brooch or sparkly hair clip onto a low side bun. Keep it messy so it doesn't look you're heading to a wedding. " So pretty, but if I did a "low side bun" with all the hair I have, I'd lean over.
I think most women like stuff like this as much as men do. And they like it more than erotic photos of men. Most women also see the extreme beauty in beautiful women. Men and women are a lot different but many will not admit it, or see it.