"Hello. Address me as ____________ (They, Them, Theirs)" [follow this link to find a short video and analysis of the gender binary and why two sets of pronouns do not adequately capture the range of gender identities: http://www.thesociologicalcinema.com/1/post/2013/11/gender-binary-gender-baggage.html] Thanks for sharing this, Pat!
You can be whatever you want to be, that's your right. Everybody has the right to live their own lives & be happy. But you can't make stuff up to fit your narrative. There's an X chromosome and a Y chromosome. Boy/Girl. And then the gender that one chooses to be. The end.