"None are so empty as those who are full of themselves." - Benjamin Whichcote I couldn't agree more. I seem to have found that it's more so the narcissistic people whom seem to be the most full of themselves.
You must admit another component to your marriage demise was your pride. Pride to humble yourself to God and truly repent, Pride to leave your job and start again because you feel so important in your position there, Pride to apologize to everyone